Now to the people who seem to only give a shit about my husband when he's deployed and try to use his service as a way to gain popularity, you disgust me.
To the people that just don't care about him at all until that very rare occasion we are able to come visit home, and you get pissed when we don't spend time with you or "enough" time with you. When you decide to fork out the money for our plane tickets which will now be 3 seats due to cambrias age we will spend as much time with you as you can handle until then STFU!
Now to a whole different group of people, adults who smoke.
Now a few posts ago I said how I had quit smoking I am glad to say I have yet to start again, and that is/was my own personal decision it's your choice if you want to smoke and I don't care if you do HOWEVER smoking while pregnant is NOT okay. I don't care who you are who "told" you it was okay let's be serious here you have to be a fucking idiot if you would consider for one millisecond that smoking while growing a child in your body is okay. And if your one of those "my doctor told me not to quit/it was okay" you better get that shit in writing so you can sue them, and you need to STFU and not be having children if you think making excuses actually justifies how much of a piece of shit you are. Your child isn't even born yet and you already don't give a shit if you kill them, PROPS TO YOU PARENT OF THE YEAR.
Now to the adults who continue or start smoking after the baby is born and are breast feeding. Yes breast milk is the best thing you can give to your new born child, however not when it's full of poison. Yes the smoke itself does not get in your mil, but EVERYTHING else in that cigarette does. And you should know that second hand smoke has been proven to be one of the leading causes of SIDS, so again props to you for being a piece of shit that shouldn't be having children in the first place. Word to the wise it cost less to get a hysterectomy then it does to raise a child.
And last but not least the adults who smoke while in the car with there children, SHAME on you! I don't care if your window is down you are worthless as a parent and human being! your children should be taken away from you!...rant over.